Breaking Down the Story of the Lady of the Forest Garden

 

Over the past two weeks, I have shared with you the story of the Lady of the Forest Garden. Shared responses include:

1.     I have never experienced that kind of love.

2.     I know no man that loves like that.

3.     I know no woman that loves like that.

4.     I want a relationship like that.

5.     Is this kind of love possible?

Let’s examine the story, the obvious circumstances that can be observed and those that cannot. First, we observe a kingdom, a dominion, or a personal space interrupted by power. Thomas, a leadership presence in his community chose not to war with power, but to acknowledge the path of powerlessness (a very real power) to save his people, community, and kingdom from harm. He took the deal offered by conquerors to spare his people by leaving with his memories and few provisions to live in a place he did not know, by himself.

He chose a space he believed he could develop into a garden paradise. There were no people. There was only the land, the trees, flowing water, his thoughts, and memories. From these raw materials, he determined to carve out a new life. Over ten years alone, he did just that by accomplishing his goals.

The land was prosperous and beautiful. He had built his own castle. The only feelings of touch and love came from his memories of love shared and hoped for nocturnal emissions.

When I hear a woman say she has never experienced that kind of love or that she knows no man that loves like Thomas means that she does not know the cost to happily ever after. It does have the associated costs of the experience of suffering, education and preparation. How bad do we want it? I will speak more to that in specifics in a later post.

Elizabeth is a gift to Thomas manifest from the underground of his subconscious. She appears in the early morning wispy mists of his consciousness ready to give to him her all because he has been giving her his all, all along.

Here is a question you might ask yourself. Why is it we are so jacked up when what we have longed for and pined for appears? It is now ours and we stand goo goo eyed as if we have lost our minds.

Men must prepare also for their happily ever after through the experience of suffering, education, and preparation. Sex can happen by luck. It might even be mind-blowing “F” the brains out kind of sex.

Relationships do no work that way. They must be paid for in blood, sweat, and tears to develop the experience, education, and preparation for the forest garden kind of love to appear.

Fiona was in a castle keep for years held there by a fire breathing dragon until the arrival of Shrek and Donkey. Neither of them knew that true love would follow. Snow White had a hit put out on her and she had to live with seven guys before her true love, Prince Charming arrived with true love’s kiss. Cinderella lived with an extremely cruel step mother and step sisters before her fairy godmother sent her to the ball to lose her slipper and marry a prince.

True love has some rules. You must suffer the experience of your personal life while visioning what your hear desires. You must prepare for your vision like it is already real and possessed. Work on yourself until the desire of your heart manifests in your experience. When it does, give all of yourself to the joyful experience you have foreseen.

I know this is possible. I am a first-hand eyewitness.

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Oscar Crawford  

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